Korean culture and customs revolve around respect and adhere to Confucian principles where elders are highly regarded. In fact, despite South Korea's tremendous economic rise after World War II and an economy that is soon expected to break into the top ten in the world, the country remains one of the most Confucian nations in the world.
When greeting someone Koreans shake hands and bow at the same time. Often times the person with lower status will use two hands to shake, either gripping the other person's hand in between both of theirs or placing their left hand on their right wrist or further up the forearm. Furthermore, the depth of the bow is determined by the level of seniority between the two people; the lower the comparative rank, the lower you bow and vice versa. Respect is also ever present in general conversation and the Korean language contains several different level of speech to be used according to the difference in rank between speakers. Traditionally, one is expected to avoid eye contact and focus on the conversation itself and this case is especially true for subordinates and those with lower rank.
Giving gifts is also an important aspect of Korean culture. Before conducting any business it is customary to give a gift and presents are very acceptable even when developing a personal relationship with someone. Opening the gifts in public, however, is generally not done and should saved for when you return home. Make sure to remember to thank the person for their gift the next time you see them.
Mealtime is an important part of Korean society. When eating, people generally sit on cushions around a low table. Chopsticks are used for main entrees that are shared and found in the center of the table, while rice and soup are eaten with spoons. Like most Asian societies rice is the staple food in Korea and is often mixed with different kinds of grains or beans known as chapkok. Soup is always served along with a side dish of fermented cabbage or other vegetable, known as kimchi.
When dining, it is impolite to pour your own glass. Just wait for someone near you to to fill your glass and and make sure to do the same for others around you. At a restaurant the older person or superior is expected to pick up the bill, or the one who suggested going out to eat. The younger generation, however, has begun splitting the bill amongst each other. Tipping is not done in Korea and, as is often the case for hotels, may be included in the bill.
Family is very important in Korea and many marriages are 'arranged' by a matchmaker appointed by the family. Once the oldest son of a family marries it is not uncommon for the new couple to live with his parents, even if they can afford their own place. This act shows filial piety and devotion to one's family.
Public displays of affection, such as kissing, are not acceptable and would be a break from proper etiquette. It is also a sure way to get started at by people around you.
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